My husband never hears me all he does is talk?

so i am a mother and i run a business i never get the chance to just have a conversation with anyone,on an adult level,my husband ignores what i say or trys to prove what i say wrong or even if im telling a story cuts me off and starts telling his own,if i try to make small talk in bed he doesent respond and just rolls over and fakes that hes sleeping!I feel so put down and degraded,he listens to other girls from his work for hours on end and has told me they are interesting to talk to or for that matter listen to,and im his wife so its different?it really sucks i feel really alone and closed off,we have only been married for 5 years i hate to bring other relationships up but in the past ones ive had witch were much longer of a time frame we would talk and talk about nothing and everything,we could stay up all night just enjoying eachothers company,i really dont know what to think i just kind of want to leave,move on because its depressing being so alone and never being able to get in a word edgwise,am i being stupid about the situation is it like this for all married couples?males please give some advice(constructive critisizum)i really dont know what to do anymore,i really am to the point where i feel like this relationship really isent much of one,also he kinda uses me as a pawn if hes afraid to ask for help from his parents or just deal with parents or friends(for instance he dident want to ask for help building shelves from his dad so he says well mel figures you and i can do this?or at our stagg/stagett a bunch of his friends were trating me like dirt because he wanted to go paintballing so my brother and i set it up and my maid of honor who was married to his best man decided to try to screw with the paintballing plans cus she did not like that idea so i told her off and said thats what he wants to do its his stagg leave it be,well she and his friends decided to treat me like **** because i stood up for him,and he pretty much let them like it was no big deal!he never stands behind me on anything just kinda uses me im getting really frustrated i always have his back and always listen to him ect but i get none in return????HELP